100 Days Of Subtraction

Day 23: Let it Land (and Bask in the Sun)

Integrating what this week revealed about love

7 hrs ago

Day 22: Roll — Love That Multitasks

When the same effort can serve more than one goal

Feb 12

Day 21: Drop the Love That Isn’t Landing

A DROP practice in love that actually works

Feb 11 • Nell Derick Debevoise Dewey

Day 20: Stop in the Name of Love

Gathering honest, helpful data without fixing anything

Feb 10 • Nell Derick Debevoise Dewey

Day 19: When Love Isn’t a Production

Spotting authentic care in ordinary moments

Feb 9 • Nell Derick Debevoise Dewey

Day 18: From Romance to Feeling Loved

Less performance. More presence. Let's practice being known.

Feb 8

Day 17: Sing the Love Song to Yourself

Today’s assignment: remember that no one but you knows the way

Feb 7

Day 16: I've Got Everything I Need

A Pause for Integration, Not Improvement

Feb 6

Day 15: ROLL — Love and Sunsets Are Free

Finding the Romance That’s Already Alive and Well

Feb 5

Day 14: DROP the Made for TV Version of Romance

Letting go of over-produced, over-priced, and impersonal 'romantic' gestures

Feb 4

Day 13: STOP Idealizing Romance

Noticing the Stories That Shape Our Expectations

Feb 3

Day 12: Rehumanizing Romance

Learning from etymologies and our Queen, Esther Perel

Feb 2 • Nell Derick Debevoise Dewey

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